What Your Website Is Saying When You're Not in the Room [And Why It Might Be Costing You Clients] (Episode 65)
Right now—literally as you’re listening to this—someone could be on your website.
They’re scrolling. They’re deciding. They’re comparing you to 7–9 other therapists… and you’re not there to guide the conversation.
That’s the role your website plays today.
In this episode, Anna walks you through what your website is actually communicating when you’re not in the room—and why that matters more than ever in today’s saturated, comparison-driven market.
If your website has been “fine” for a while… this episode will help you see why “fine” might not be enough anymore.
Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode:
1️⃣ The three things your website is always communicating—and how they impact whether a client reaches out
2️⃣ Why first impressions are almost entirely visual (and how design can quietly build—or break—trust)
3️⃣ How specificity in your messaging helps right-fit clients self-select (and makes consults easier)
4️⃣ The role personality plays in helping clients feel connected to you before you ever speak
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Hey, hey. Welcome back to Marketing Therapy. We are thick in birthday season here at Walker Strategy Co. Figuratively and literally birthday season. April is really, really exciting because each year we celebrate the birthday of Walker Strategy Co. It was seven years ago this month that I began serving therapists, starting originally with their copy, stepping into website design, and now being able to support over 5,000 therapists in our paid programs and services in the last seven years.
Absolutely wild to reflect. You may have caught my seven learnings and seven years episode a few weeks back where I shared what I have noticed, learned, experienced in these seven years. And I encourage you to check that out if you'd like. There's some really interesting tie-ins to therapists in private practice that I've heard from you was really helpful.
But we're also in birthday season, literally because I am potentially, as you're listening to this, going to be having my third child and. It's possible that I'm already out on maternity leave, or I may be toiling away trying to put the finishing touches on things. But like I said, birthday season has multiple meanings this year for us.
Now, one of the final learnings I shared in that seven takeaways in seven years episode was that your ideal client evolves. It can evolve, it should evolve. Just as your niche does, you become a different clinician over time. You learn more and more about who you serve best and that is allowed to happen and that it is your job to pay attention and to ensure that your marketing reflects that.
Now I want you to take a moment if you have an existing website, and realize that this very moment, this very moment, you are sitting here listening to this podcast, whether you're washing dishes or you're between sessions or you're on your commute, someone might be on your website right now.
Right now, there might be a potential. Client, someone who could be a fantastic fit for you sitting on your website this very, very minute. It might be 11:00 PM they still might be on your website and they found you somehow, right? It might have been a directory, it might have been Google. It might have been chat GPT.
It might have been a referral from someone, but right now they are reading and they are deciding whether or not they're gonna reach out to you. You have no idea. You can't do anything right now. You can't influence them. What they get is what they get while you're in the middle of this podcast episode or doing whatever it is that you're doing.
That is the thing about your website. It never clocks out. I hope that you are out on a walk right now or in the pickup line to get your kids or whatever it might be. Your website isn't. It doesn't take sick days. It doesn't get nervous before networking conversations. It doesn't ask for PTO.
Your website is always out there saying something about you. The question is, do you like what it has to say? Isn't that interesting to think about that someone who could be a perfect fit for you might be on your website right this minute, and if you don't have a website, someone might be on someone else's website or looking for a therapist like you write this minute, doesn't that just kind of hit home for you? When I sit with that idea, it really does bring close the fact that what we put out there online has a really big job to do 'cause we're not there for that interaction. If they were able to get on a consult call with you or sit across the room from you in an intake, yeah, they probably would.
Realize that you're fantastic at what you do and are great at building a rapport and are someone that they could trust their deepest, darkest secrets with. But right now we don't have that luxury, right? So that's what I want you to be reflecting on today is what is your website saying when you're not in the proverbial room?
Ultimately, it comes down to three things that your website communicates before anyone. Does anything and we're gonna look at why getting all three of these, right, all three, not just some of them, all of them, right?
Is what is separating a site that fills your caseload from one that just exists. The number of conversations I have had with clinicians in the last, I would say two to three months, who have said, I've had the same website for years and it worked, and I'm realizing now I have to take it up a notch. That has been a more common story that I have heard in the last handful of months than I did in probably all of 2025.
It's been very, very interesting. But is your website out there existing just floating around, maybe saying something good about you? Maybe not. Or is it actually doing something? Is it filling that caseload? Like that state of the industry survey showed us at the end of 2025? You are over two times more likely to have a full caseload if clients reach out to you through your website.
All right, so that's what we're looking at today is three things that your website has to be communicating. What is your website saying when you're not in the room? The first thing. Credibility. That is the first thing that your website is saying about you, whether or not you are credible. Now, we know that people judge your website before they actually read anything.
Studies are so fascinating on this, how quickly our subconscious makes judgments and first impressions are these days almost entirely visual. So yes, your words matter, and we're gonna get into that of course. But that first gut reaction is almost entirely dictated by visuals. And
I think something that a lot of therapists overlook is the fact that a Polish website communicates one thing in particular, and that is that you take your work seriously and that's critical to your clients, right? A dated or generic site has the room to introduce doubt. Doubt about how current this clinician is.
Doubt about how professional this clinician is. Doubt about how seriously this clinician takes their practice. Which is so painful, right? Because even if you are an incredible clinician, if your website is introducing doubt in that split second moment, then your website has to do a whole ton of work to overcome that.
And we all know that first impressions are very, very, very difficult to change, right? It is what I see happen a lot in what I call the multi tab reality. You've probably heard me talk about this recently, but we know that your therapy clients are looking at between seven and nine plus other therapy websites before they decide who to reach out to.
If you're anything like me, you've got an entire browser window, maybe multiple guilty of tab after tab, after tab, after tab. So imagine having a browser window up with seven to nine tabs of therapist websites and a client, a potential client going one to the other, one to the other.
The fact is, and this is okay, this is normal. This is human. Clients are comparing you to others. They're weighing you against the other clinicians that they're looking at. You could have equal credentials, same niche, but if your site loses on feel, they close the tab. If that initial gut reaction is not positive, even if you have the same exact training or more the same exact niche or better, if you lose out on that feel on that vibe, then you've lost them and that tab goes away.
Now part of this can feel vain because, well, you know, why didn't you keep reading? Don't you know, I'm a great clinician, but this is human. It's something we all do. We equate presentation quality with work quality. When we put on a workshop, which we do a handful of times per year, a live workshop where we're gonna have hundreds of people in a room together, we put so much thought into how that presentation looks and feels, because if I showed up with some PowerPoint with times New Roman, you know, black font on a white background, you probably wouldn't trust me as much.
That's just the truth. It's what we do. We equate presentation quality with work quality.
When clients decide to reach out to therapy, they're often already anxious, already hesitant, and a credible site gives them confidence to take the next step.
If you caught my recent episode on the About page, I'll link it in the show notes. I talked about how in order to reach out to someone in order for any of us to make a decision about our money, but especially in order for someone to reach out to a therapist, they have to cross over a barrier and we can't remove that barrier.
And so I want you to imagine your ideal client sitting on one side of a wall and sitting on your couch as a paying client on the other. In order for them to get from point A to point B, they have to get over an obstacle or a barrier when your website is outdated. When your website is harming your credibility, you are heightening the wall that you are asking your clients to jump over.
Like I said, we can't remove it. There is going to be an obstacle there, but when you are hurting your own credibility with an outdated design or something that causes them to immediately question you before they even read anything, that wall's just getting higher. It. Making that wall shorter can be as simple as having a very, very clean, easy to navigate, polished, professional presence.
All of a sudden, it drops a foot. That wall drops a foot, maybe another foot. It's getting easier for them to step over it and to reach out to you. So what does credibility actually look like? Well, that's kind of hard, right? Design is subjective, but clean, as I mentioned, easy to navigate enough white space where things aren't just crammed together.
Thoughtful use of color. That doesn't mean it needs to be all muted. You can absolutely have a punchy, colorful website if you want you, if you've seen our Zoey template, you know what I'm talking about. But thoughtful use of color, consistent use of fonts, imagery that matches your practice's energy. And a very cohesive visual identity, right?
Everything working together. You know, when you've landed on a website that does that, and you know, when you land on a website that isn't right, like I said, the fact is that design. The design of your site, the look and feel of your site, it introduces and builds credibility before your copy gets the chance to close the deal.
All right? It does something before the words even start to work. It's the reason design matters more than it ever has because of that multi-tap reality I was talking about. It's why we're so passionate, more passionate than we have ever been about really good, solid branding and design in your practice.
It's also why we've absolutely prioritized templates as part of our birthday sale. You're gonna get 20% off all of our templates starting next week as part of our birthday sale, and. We are bringing back our buy now choose later option. So if you know that you want one of our templates, but you're not ready to make a choice yet, we are bringing that back.
We introduced it during Black Friday last year, and y'all loved it. So there will be that option as well. But it's one of the reasons, like I said, we feel so strongly about making sure that you are presenting yourself well visually, so that then the words, then the niche, then the expertise, then the deep understanding of your clients gets to do its job.
But if we miss this, then we miss out on all of that additional opportunity. Okay, so that's part one. That's the first thing that your website is communicating about you when you're not in the room. The next, say it with me now. Specificity. Specificity is the name of the game right now. I think I've mentioned it in just about every single marketing therapy podcast episode, and just about every single coaching call with my Confident Copy Live students.
It's everywhere because specificity right now is your greatest asset. And when you have generic website copy, when you attempt to be all things to all people, you miss out on the number one opportunity available to you right now, if you are in a saturated area, and I bet right now you're sitting in a saturated area, okay?
If you say things like, I help individuals, couples, and families with trauma and grief and anxiety and depression, that could be anyone anywhere. Okay. Nobody feels deeply spoken to when you say things like that on your website.
If instead you are specific, then you help that right fit person. You help that client who you absolutely love to work with and you wish you could clone and have a full caseload of you help that person think. Oh my goodness, she's talking about me. That's the power of a really clear niche and a niche that is clearly communicated right now.
Is that your right fit client? Self-selects. What do I mean by that? I mean that if right now you're sitting here listening to this podcast episode and your ideal client is scanning your website, she knows she's in the right place on her own. That's the power of specificity. That's what it can do for you right now.
And I think the paradox that so many clinicians still wrestle with, even though they know they quote unquote, need a niche, is that the more specific you are, chances are the more clients you're going to attract. Not fewer. Especially in the age of ai,
we are seeing the power of specificity just compound and the opportunity available. For clinicians to be Uber, uber specific in their marketing, be just more rich than it has ever been. Let me say that again, that the more specific you are, the more clients you are actually likely to attract, not fewer.
Now, we have to be mindful of this. In our Confident Copy program, we show you how to choose specialties and focus areas that are going to be attractive to enough people to fill your caseload. But like I said, in this market, in the age of ai, your ability to be specific to laser focus in on a particular type of client, a particular presenting issue, a particular approach.
That is offering you more potential than it ever has in your marketing because we know that there are more therapists in the market there have ever been, and there's that comparison shopping. There's the multi tab reality happening every single day by your ideal clients. The fact is, when your clients have all those tabs open, they are looking, they are asking, they are desperately seeking a reason to choose you.
So please, by all means, give them one. Give them a reason to choose you. And the way you do that is through your words. It is through your niche and a clear communication of what it is that you bring to the table, a deep understanding of what it is that your clients are looking for.
Okay? Your specificity lives everywhere in your website from that very first headline that they see after they make their snap judgment, right, that we talked about earlier.
The specificity starts with that very, very first headline, and then it is infused into the entire journey of the website. The words you say as you introduce yourself on the homepage, and then you invite them into the about page, the different specialty page topics that you decide on, the method, pages you perhaps bring in, it happens everywhere, and then it flows out.
This is one of the coolest things I hear from our confident copy students, that not only is their website better, but their networking is better, their console calls are better, their content creation is better, because all of a sudden they know what it is that they do, what they do well, and how to talk about it.
Your words in your marketing are the only thing that travel, they're the only thing that gets carried from website copy to consult, call to networking conversation to psych today, script to social media. It goes everywhere with you, but we've gotta get clear on what it is to begin with. Right? When your copy is doing its job, you're getting those phone calls from people saying, I looked at a bunch of different therapist websites, but you're the one I wanna work with, right?
It's that self-selecting I was talking about, and the beauty of that is it makes your consults convert way easier. 'cause people come in ready to work with you. They have a deep understanding of what it is that you do. You're not getting on a phone call and people asking, do you do couples therapy?
And you're like, no. Is there anything worse than that? Right. They're actually getting on consults with a deep understanding of what it is that you bring to the table and with a desire to do that. Specific work with you. It's the coolest thing and we see the wrong fit Inquiries drop off in Confident Copy.
We call that blessing and releasing where they say I am not in the right place.
Like I said, this specificity thing, when you are not in the room, when your ideal client is on your website, while you're making dinner for your family, they are looking for a reason to choose you, and they're going to choose you because you were specific to them and because they can see themselves in what it is that you have written there.
That is the absolute power that specificity lends you right now. Confident Copy is of course going to be included in our birthday sale next week. You're gonna get 20% off Confident copy enrollment, so that is our self-study version where you get lifetime access to the entire curriculum, including any updates that we make.
The number of updates we've made to Confident copy just in the last year to reflect the changes have been immense and I do see us making additional changes as AI continues to change the game. You get access to all of that. You buy once forever access. And like I said, that will definitely be included in the birthday sale.
Now, last but not least, this is the fun thing. You know what your website communicates when you're not in the room? Personality, right? Therapy is so different from almost every other service you could possibly engage in because clients are choosing above all a person, right? This is not you choosing someone to paint your living room.
This is not someone you're choosing to give you massage. This is a person, this is someone you are choosing to be in relationship with. There's literally nothing else out there like it.
And the incredible thing is that your ideal clients are out there seeking that relationship. The relationship that they're seeking can begin to be formed before they even talk to you. That's the power of good marketing. Your personality can come through in ways people don't even necessarily consciously register.
The tone of your writing, right? If you're warm versus a little bit more polished or professional. The image choices that you decide on the color palette of your website, like I was talking about, our Zoe template is like bright and punchy and fun and bold, and then our west template is like moody and earthy and, and a little bit darker.
And then we have our kit template that's like lighter. You know what I mean? You can communicate a lot through these things, even just like your sentence structure and the way that you format things. Because you have a specific way of speaking and presenting yourself, and when your website is an extension of that, so too is the relationship that people are wanting to build with you.
It's again, another one of those reasons you get on the consults where people say, I read your website and you are the therapist I've looking for. Your website felt different to me. Those are exact things that our confident copy students often hear from people. Visitors end up getting, when your website has this personality piece, a felt sense and they can't always name it.
It's one of those things about senses, but they know when something just feels right feels different. In those multiple tabs, something felt different. Here year. This is where design and copy start to work together. In a really unique way because design is setting sort of that emotional tone before anyone reads a word, right?
They're getting a sense of color and layout and format and things like that, but copy is either confirming or disrupting that feeling, so they have to be in synergy When they're aligned, then right fit clients are at home immediately because the design and the copy are marrying to. Create the type of experience that they're wanting when they're misaligned, and that's the dangerous part.
Something feels off, and again, they can't explain why, but something's off here. The copy's really, really good, but man, it's presented in a weird way. Or on the flip side, the design is so pretty, but I have no idea what they actually do. I experienced that with a confident copy student. She came into the program interested in joining, and I had the pleasure of getting to look at her site before she jumped in, and her website was beautiful.
She had gone through an extensive branding process. It was really fun and interesting. It had a unique point of view, but as I read her like one to two page website, I had no idea what she did and her marketing results were confirming that she was not getting inquiries and they definitely were not the right fit.
Well, then she goes through Confident copy and she incorporates that with her beautiful branding, and all of a sudden I hear from her, when people reach out to me, they are the perfect fit. That's what happened when she started to create alignment between that copy and the beautiful design that she'd invested in.
That's what I love to see happen when these two things really come together and have that synergy. I mean, imagine like a really warm, relational, embodied somatic therapist and they have this like cold clinical copy and this really outdated design. Like,
i'm just not getting your personality here, and that's something that your clients are seeking. When it all clicks though, that's when those RightFit clients sort of lean in. Something feels different here. And again, the wrong clients, they're self-selecting out and that is a blessing. We bless and release them.
It is a gift when your marketing does that for you. 'cause that means that when you're hearing from people, they are almost always the right fit. Now this personality piece, I think is one of the hardest things to DIY, but it is the highest impact thing that you can get right. I know when I've landed on the website of someone who has done a lot of studying of maybe our processes or other therapist websites that they admire, they've tried to piece together the design thing and it's still falling flat.
It's still giving DIY vibes and it's why we structured our templates and confident copy the way that we did. It's also why we introduced our DIY brand kit. Last year we actually released DIY brand kit during last year's birthday sale. Everyone that purchased during the sale got.
Free access to the program and since then we've gotten just absolutely incredible feedback from folks. But when these things work together, when our professionally designed template works alongside the DIY brand kit, with the compelling client friendly copy of Confident Copy, we have the trifecta of that personality.
It's why we're offering a bundle of these three things for the very first time. We have never before bundled confident copy a template and the DIY brand kit, and we're doing it for the first time as part of next week's birthday sale. So that's gonna be 30% off the normal price, which is. Totally wild.
Definitely the biggest discount we've offered on, on this grouping ever, but we're super excited because it's for the therapist who's ready to inject that personality at a very, very, very high level, right? Who wants to be credible, who wants to be specific, and who knows that they need to be bringing those things together in a really compelling way on their website.
So those are the three things. If right now you're sitting here and an ideal client is on your website, they are looking for credibility, they're looking for specificity, and they are looking for personality. Is your website saying what you hope it is about those three things? Because you are credible, you do great work, you have a personality.
Is your website communicating that on your behalf? 'cause you're not there right now. Your website is. So here are three questions to consider as you sit with this. One. When did you, have you ever last visited your site as a potential client sink down into the shoes of your favorite client? When have you ever visited your website?
Not to edit it, but just to experience it. If you haven't done that, I want you to do that today. I want you to pull up your website. We're not looking for errors, but go and just experience it. Look for credibility signals, look for specificity, look for personality. What are you seeing? Another question as you do that, does your website reflect the clinician you are today, or the one you were to five, 10 years ago?
Yeah, because I want you bringing in clients who are the right fit for you. Now, like I talked about one of the learnings I shared in our seven takeaways in seven years episode was the fact that your ideal client can and should evolve, but it is your job and your responsibility to make sure that your marketing reflects that.
So are you reflecting that? Are you reflecting who you are today and who you serve best now? And then finally, as you go through that exercise, would your ideal client feel specifically seen here? Could they point to a section or to a statement, a word, a phrase, and experience on your website that felt specific to them?
Not just generally welcomed with literally any warm body that's seeking out a therapist. If you have any hesitation on these questions, that hesitation is information for you. It's information that maybe there's something to be done here. There's something to uplevel. There's something to dial in.
There's something to get serious about, and that's a reason to act. That's a reason to do something because the gap between where your site is today as that ideal client is potentially scrolling right this minute, and where it could be, it has a real cost. In that multi tab reality, the cost is losing out.
The cost is that tab being closed, right? The missed consults, the wrong fit. Clients asking if you do couples work or take your insurance or whatever, it adds up, and I encourage you to reflect on that. Credibility, specificity, personality. Where is your website? Lacking. Where could it be improved?
Where could it be upleveled to meet your ideal client at their point of need and to reflect the level that you are operating at as a clinician today? Now, as I've mentioned, every year around our birthday, every April we celebrate with our once a year sale and doors are opening to our birthday sale next week, April 20th through April 23rd, we're gonna have 20% off all of our templates and add-on pages.
Our Buy now, choose later. We're bringing back. So if you're not ready to make a choice, if decision fatigue is keeping you stuck, go snag that discount and then make a decision over the next couple weeks. Confident copy will also be 20% off. So if you're looking for that specificity and personality layer, we're gonna guide you through niching and website copy and psych today, using that proven framework and lifetime access, of course, to any future updates as well.
But then the ultimate DIY bundle is the one that I'm most excited about 'cause it's the first time we've offered all three of these things together and in this market. As I look around at what's working and what's needed, I think that this is for the clinician who's ready to stand out.
So the ultimate DIY bundle, again, is gonna be 30% off, and that includes confident copy, our DIY brand kit, and the template of your choice. It really is the whole system to address everything we've talked about here today. The credibility, check the specificity, check the personality, all three of those things, and it's the best discount we've ever offered on this grouping.
Okay. We are also offering a free gift to anyone, a free birthday gift to anyone that decides to make a purchase during our birthday sale. I don't get to tell you all the details until next week, but I can promise you that after you launch your website, it is going to be a powerful tool for you to figure out what the heck to do next, and to make sure that you are reaching out to the right people at the right time that are relevant to your niche, to your location.
I can't wait to tell you more about it, so know that there is a free gift that we are giving away to celebrate our own birthday next week. I cannot wait to share all those details with you. Now, if you wanna do a little bit of window shopping on the birthday sale, you can preview everything, walkerstrategyco.com/bs26.
We'll put the link in the show notes so you can go look around, preview things, figure out if there's something that you're interested in.
But here's what I wanna leave you with today. Your website is working right now with or without you.
The only question now is whether it's working for you. And if you're not positive that it is, listen to that. Use that information and do something with it. You know, I'm cheering you on. You know what I want for you? I want you getting on those phone calls with people saying, I read your website and I know you're the therapist for me.
If the birthday sale can get you there, amazing. If all you needed was this little fire lit under you, awesome. Whatever it is, I'm excited for you. I'm excited for what you do next, and I can't wait for you to get those right fit clients. I'll see you next week.
Resources & Links Mentioned:
Birthday Sale: https://walkerstrategyco.com/bs26
Confident Copy: https://walkerstrategyco.com/cc
Squarespace Templates: https://walkerstrategyco.com/templates
DIY Brand Kit (DBK): https://walkerstrategyco.com/dbk
59. How to Write an About Page That Builds Instant Trust: https://walkerstrategyco.com/show-notes/59
63. 7 Years, 5,000+ Therapists: What I’ve Learned: https://walkerstrategyco.com/show-notes/63
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